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If you do not know me (I mean, really know me) then there is something you need to understand before you read this blog: I value the truth above everything else... except a good laugh. A good laugh will almost always beat the truth as far as I’m concerned. Everything you read on this blog will be true, somewhat true, or something I made up in an effort to get a laugh. Sometimes I will go on a rant that I don’t really mean (or only kind of mean). Sometimes I will mean what I write only to completely change my mind a year, month, or day later. Such is life. By reading this blog you agree not to get offended by anything I write (or, at the very least, you agree not to tell me or anyone else that you are offended). It is worth noting that my employer does not endorse my blog (or even read it, to tell you the truth). The Wife also does not endorse my blog (though she will read it from time to time). I am not paid to write this... it’s just my way of giving back to the community. I have, and will, touch on a wide range of subjects and will give my opinion on these subjects. Again, most of what I say is for laughs but every now and then I will say what I really think and feel (see my views on Westboro Baptist Cult). How will you know when I’m serious and when I’m trying to get a laugh? You’ll know. And if you don’t know, well... maybe this isn’t the best thing for you to be reading. So, sit back, read and enjoy. Leave comments if you want and don’t be afraid to publicly follow me.



Saturday, September 15, 2018

#1

In an effort to raise money for The Walk to End Alzheimer’s, I am counting down the Top 138 Bon Jovi Songs of All Time. As a reminder, this list also includes songs from solo projects of Jon Bon Jovi and Richie Sambora (because they are main members of the group and because I like their songs). Feel free to leave a comment and, even better, feel free to donate. Multiple donations are allowed. There is no limit for how big a donation can be… I challenge you to challenge that statement. You are also welcome to join Team I’m just sayin… in our Walk to End Alzheimer’s.

You can donate (or find a way to join the team) @ http://act.alz.org/goto/gwhorres

Top 138 Bon Jovi Songs of All Time List

#1

Song: Livin’ On A Prayer

Year: 1986

Album: Slippery When Wet

Writers: Jon Bon Jovi, Richie Sambora & Desmond Child

Notes: Who hasn't gone through a season of life (or seasons of life) where they felt like they were living on a prayer?

Friday, September 14, 2018

#2

In an effort to raise money for The Walk to End Alzheimer’s, I am counting down the Top 138 Bon Jovi Songs of All Time. As a reminder, this list also includes songs from solo projects of Jon Bon Jovi and Richie Sambora (because they are main members of the group and because I like their songs). Feel free to leave a comment and, even better, feel free to donate. Multiple donations are allowed. There is no limit for how big a donation can be… I challenge you to challenge that statement. You are also welcome to join Team I’m just sayin… in our Walk to End Alzheimer’s.

You can donate (or find a way to join the team) @ http://act.alz.org/goto/gwhorres

Top 138 Bon Jovi Songs of All Time List

#2

Song: It’s My Life

Year: 2000

Album: Crush

Writers: Jon Bon Jovi, Richie Sambora & Max Martin

Notes: This is one of the songs I was listening to while driving to class on 9/11…

Thursday, September 13, 2018

#3

In an effort to raise money for The Walk to End Alzheimer’s, I am counting down the Top 138 Bon Jovi Songs of All Time. As a reminder, this list also includes songs from solo projects of Jon Bon Jovi and Richie Sambora (because they are main members of the group and because I like their songs). Feel free to leave a comment and, even better, feel free to donate. Multiple donations are allowed. There is no limit for how big a donation can be… I challenge you to challenge that statement. You are also welcome to join Team I’m just sayin… in our Walk to End Alzheimer’s.

You can donate (or find a way to join the team) @ http://act.alz.org/goto/gwhorres

Top 138 Bon Jovi Songs of All Time List

#3

Song: Bed of Roses

Year: 1992

Album: Keep the Faith

Writers: Jon Bon Jovi

Notes: If this song isn’t perfect, it’s pretty damn close.

Wednesday, September 12, 2018

#4

In an effort to raise money for The Walk to End Alzheimer’s, I am counting down the Top 138 Bon Jovi Songs of All Time. As a reminder, this list also includes songs from solo projects of Jon Bon Jovi and Richie Sambora (because they are main members of the group and because I like their songs). Feel free to leave a comment and, even better, feel free to donate. Multiple donations are allowed. There is no limit for how big a donation can be… I challenge you to challenge that statement. You are also welcome to join Team I’m just sayin… in our Walk to End Alzheimer’s.

You can donate (or find a way to join the team) @ http://act.alz.org/goto/gwhorres

Top 138 Bon Jovi Songs of All Time List

#4

Song: You Give Love a Bad Name

Year: 1986

Album: Slippery When Wet

Writers: Jon Bon Jovi, Richie Sambora & Desmond Child

Notes: One of the first songs I remember loving…

Tuesday, September 11, 2018

#5

In an effort to raise money for The Walk to End Alzheimer’s, I am counting down the Top 138 Bon Jovi Songs of All Time. As a reminder, this list also includes songs from solo projects of Jon Bon Jovi and Richie Sambora (because they are main members of the group and because I like their songs). Feel free to leave a comment and, even better, feel free to donate. Multiple donations are allowed. There is no limit for how big a donation can be… I challenge you to challenge that statement. You are also welcome to join Team I’m just sayin… in our Walk to End Alzheimer’s.

You can donate (or find a way to join the team) @ http://act.alz.org/goto/gwhorres

Top 138 Bon Jovi Songs of All Time List

#5

Song: Blaze of Glory

Year: 1990

Album: Blaze of Glory (Young Guns II Soundtrack)

Writers: Jon Bon Jovi

Notes: The story is that Jon Bon Jovi wrote this song on a napkin while in a diner with Emilio Estevez and Kiefer Sutherland talking about Young Guns II.


And now on to our regularly scheduled 9/11 post…

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Today marks the anniversary of the day the terrorists attacked the USA. I would think the History Channel will be focused on this event as it has been in previous years (after all, it is the History Channel). I remember it like it just happened. I was about a month into my second senior year at Winthrop University, living in an apartment at Mallard Point with Jeremy and Thomas. I got up and headed to my Tuesday morning class, just like always. Back then, I would usually listen to John Boy & Billy on the radio as I headed to class but on this day I was listening to a Bon Jovi CD (on one of those portable CD players that you had to connect to the car via a cassette tape that had a wire running from it to the CD player). I got to my class (a Business Writing class) and sat down. A couple minutes later a guy in our class walks in and says that he heard that two planes collided in New York City around the World Trade Center. It seemed, at the time, like it was two small planes... and while it was sad to hear, it wasn’t earth shattering news. After class I was walking out to meet/hangout with The Girlfriend. I had a break between my first class and my afternoon class (with The Girlfriend) so I liked to have lunch with her on those days. Rumors were starting to pick up about what was going on, so we headed back to her place for lunch (which I don’t think we ever ate that day) and to watch the news. We sat and watched as smoke poured out of the windows of the towers. By then, I believe, one of the towers had already fallen. As we were watching the news live, the second tower came down. At first, I thought maybe they were showing a replay of the first one... but then I realized it was the second one. I must admit to being a bit naïve that day because I was thinking at the time well surely everyone had evacuated from the building by then. Have you ever tried walking down 80 flights of stairs (or even 30 flights, for that matter)? Me either. It did hit, pretty quick, that even if everyone else had gotten out... there were still all the firefighters/policemen/EMS people who had been running in. I remember we sat there kind of stunned just watching TV. I remember having this numb feeling for a while (days/weeks?) after that and just wanting to sit and watch the news. We finally had to get up and go to our afternoon class because Winthrop (at least back then) wouldn’t cancel a class for anything. I remember just going through the motions in my afternoon classes... waiting for a chance to get back in front of the TV to watch the news. Back then I was working as a Manager Trainee at Rack Room Shoes in Carolina Place Mall (in Pineville, NC). I was scheduled to work that night, but I got a call from Peggy (my boss) telling me not to worry about coming in. She said she was pretty sure they were going to close the mall early, but even if they didn’t, nobody was there. Because of my class schedule, I worked almost every night and most of the time on the weekends... so this gave me a rare night off to spend with The Girlfriend. We went to Ryan’s for dinner. Her dad called me on my cell phone because he hadn’t been able to reach her. I remember this was perhaps the longest period of time in my life when I just didn’t feel like laughing. I remember walking around campus and noticing how quiet it was. Winthrop is close enough to Charlotte that there are almost always planes in the sky... but not that day. Even the roads were light... it seemed everyone was staying home watching TV. I think the mall was closed for a couple of days (though I could be mistaken). I do remember going back to work and the place being like a ghost town for the first week or two. I mean, there was NOBODY in the mall. NOBODY. Nobody shopping. Nobody “just looking”. Nobody out walking around. Even the shoplifters were staying home. It was very strange. I remember me, Peggy, and Maureen (my friend from Long Island who was a part-time worker at our store, who has since passed away) would just stand there and talk. Every now and then we’d walk around the store and clean/straighten up... but with no customers there wasn’t much to clean. I do remember standing in the back corner of the store straightening up some shoe boxes when I heard “Leaving on a Jet Plane” (Leaving on a jet plane, don’t know when I’ll be back again) being played and thinking, “Hmmm.... I don’t think this is the best time to be playing a song like this”. As time went on, things started to get back to “normal”. We had work and classes and The Girlfriend was busy planning “our” wedding. Before long sports picked back up and the little things that we learned weren’t really all that important started to become important again. Before you know it, 1... 2... 15 years have gone by and here we are. Since then, I’ve lost two grandmothers (well, I didn’t really “lose” them... they died... I know where they are) and gained two daughters and a son. I’m sure this event hit some people harder than it did me. Some for obvious reasons, some maybe not. Make sure you checkout the History Channel off and on today in between football games. The programming they have on 9/11 is just incredible. Some of the programs have “home video” type footage that really gives a great perspective on how things were that day. Some of it is hard to watch. Most of it will probably bring tears to your eyes (it did mine), but all of it is worth watching.

Monday, September 10, 2018

#6

In an effort to raise money for The Walk to End Alzheimer’s, I am counting down the Top 138 Bon Jovi Songs of All Time. As a reminder, this list also includes songs from solo projects of Jon Bon Jovi and Richie Sambora (because they are main members of the group and because I like their songs). Feel free to leave a comment and, even better, feel free to donate. Multiple donations are allowed. There is no limit for how big a donation can be… I challenge you to challenge that statement. You are also welcome to join Team I’m just sayin… in our Walk to End Alzheimer’s.

You can donate (or find a way to join the team) @ http://act.alz.org/goto/gwhorres

Top 138 Bon Jovi Songs of All Time List

#6

Song: Wanted Dead or Alive

Year: 1986

Album: Slippery When Wet

Writers: Jon Bon Jovi & Richie Sambora

Notes: The placement of the songs in the Top 6 is really a toss-up. You could make a strong argument for any of them being #1 and you wouldn't be crazy.

Sunday, September 9, 2018

#7

In an effort to raise money for The Walk to End Alzheimer’s, I am counting down the Top 138 Bon Jovi Songs of All Time. As a reminder, this list also includes songs from solo projects of Jon Bon Jovi and Richie Sambora (because they are main members of the group and because I like their songs). Feel free to leave a comment and, even better, feel free to donate. Multiple donations are allowed. There is no limit for how big a donation can be… I challenge you to challenge that statement. You are also welcome to join Team I’m just sayin… in our Walk to End Alzheimer’s.

You can donate (or find a way to join the team) @ http://act.alz.org/goto/gwhorres

Top 138 Bon Jovi Songs of All Time List

#7

Song: Hearts Breaking Even

Year: 1995

Album: These Days

Writers: Jon Bon Jovi & Desmond Child

Notes: A great break-up song…

Saturday, September 8, 2018

#8

In an effort to raise money for The Walk to End Alzheimer’s, I am counting down the Top 138 Bon Jovi Songs of All Time. As a reminder, this list also includes songs from solo projects of Jon Bon Jovi and Richie Sambora (because they are main members of the group and because I like their songs). Feel free to leave a comment and, even better, feel free to donate. Multiple donations are allowed. There is no limit for how big a donation can be… I challenge you to challenge that statement. You are also welcome to join Team I’m just sayin… in our Walk to End Alzheimer’s.

You can donate (or find a way to join the team) @ http://act.alz.org/goto/gwhorres

Top 138 Bon Jovi Songs of All Time List

#8

Song: Captain Crash and the Beauty Queen from Mars

Year: 2000

Album: Crush

Writers: Jon Bon Jovi & Richie Sambora

Notes: I was slow to come around to this song until I heard the band play it live at the first Bon Jovi concert I went to… after that, I realized how great it is.

Friday, September 7, 2018

#9

In an effort to raise money for The Walk to End Alzheimer’s, I am counting down the Top 138 Bon Jovi Songs of All Time. As a reminder, this list also includes songs from solo projects of Jon Bon Jovi and Richie Sambora (because they are main members of the group and because I like their songs). Feel free to leave a comment and, even better, feel free to donate. Multiple donations are allowed. There is no limit for how big a donation can be… I challenge you to challenge that statement. You are also welcome to join Team I’m just sayin… in our Walk to End Alzheimer’s.

You can donate (or find a way to join the team) @ http://act.alz.org/goto/gwhorres

Top 138 Bon Jovi Songs of All Time List

#9

Song: Bad Medicine

Year: 1988

Album: New Jersey

Writers: Jon Bon Jovi, Richie Sambora & Desmond Child

Thursday, September 6, 2018

#10

In an effort to raise money for The Walk to End Alzheimer’s, I am counting down the Top 138 Bon Jovi Songs of All Time. As a reminder, this list also includes songs from solo projects of Jon Bon Jovi and Richie Sambora (because they are main members of the group and because I like their songs). Feel free to leave a comment and, even better, feel free to donate. Multiple donations are allowed. There is no limit for how big a donation can be… I challenge you to challenge that statement. You are also welcome to join Team I’m just sayin… in our Walk to End Alzheimer’s.

You can donate (or find a way to join the team) @ http://act.alz.org/goto/gwhorres

Top 138 Bon Jovi Songs of All Time List

#10

Song: Raise Your Hands

Year: 1986

Album: Slippery When Wet

Writers: Jon Bon Jovi & Richie Sambora

Notes: If this song doesn’t get your blood pumping, nothing will.

Wednesday, September 5, 2018

#11

In an effort to raise money for The Walk to End Alzheimer’s, I am counting down the Top 138 Bon Jovi Songs of All Time. As a reminder, this list also includes songs from solo projects of Jon Bon Jovi and Richie Sambora (because they are main members of the group and because I like their songs). Feel free to leave a comment and, even better, feel free to donate. Multiple donations are allowed. There is no limit for how big a donation can be… I challenge you to challenge that statement. You are also welcome to join Team I’m just sayin… in our Walk to End Alzheimer’s.

You can donate (or find a way to join the team) @ http://act.alz.org/goto/gwhorres

Top 138 Bon Jovi Songs of All Time List

#11

Song: This Ain’t a Love Song

Year: 1995

Album: These Days

Writers: Jon Bon Jovi, Richie Sambora & Desmond Child

Tuesday, September 4, 2018

#12

In an effort to raise money for The Walk to End Alzheimer’s, I am counting down the Top 138 Bon Jovi Songs of All Time. As a reminder, this list also includes songs from solo projects of Jon Bon Jovi and Richie Sambora (because they are main members of the group and because I like their songs). Feel free to leave a comment and, even better, feel free to donate. Multiple donations are allowed. There is no limit for how big a donation can be… I challenge you to challenge that statement. You are also welcome to join Team I’m just sayin… in our Walk to End Alzheimer’s.

You can donate (or find a way to join the team) @ http://act.alz.org/goto/gwhorres

Top 138 Bon Jovi Songs of All Time List

#12

Song: Wild in the Streets

Year: 1986

Album: Slippery When Wet

Writers: Jon Bon Jovi

Monday, September 3, 2018

#13

In an effort to raise money for The Walk to End Alzheimer’s, I am counting down the Top 138 Bon Jovi Songs of All Time. As a reminder, this list also includes songs from solo projects of Jon Bon Jovi and Richie Sambora (because they are main members of the group and because I like their songs). Feel free to leave a comment and, even better, feel free to donate. Multiple donations are allowed. There is no limit for how big a donation can be… I challenge you to challenge that statement. You are also welcome to join Team I’m just sayin… in our Walk to End Alzheimer’s.

You can donate (or find a way to join the team) @ http://act.alz.org/goto/gwhorres

Top 138 Bon Jovi Songs of All Time List

#13

Song: These Days

Year: 1995

Album: These Days

Writers: Jon Bon Jovi & Richie Sambora

Sunday, September 2, 2018

#14

In an effort to raise money for The Walk to End Alzheimer’s, I am counting down the Top 138 Bon Jovi Songs of All Time. As a reminder, this list also includes songs from solo projects of Jon Bon Jovi and Richie Sambora (because they are main members of the group and because I like their songs). Feel free to leave a comment and, even better, feel free to donate. Multiple donations are allowed. There is no limit for how big a donation can be… I challenge you to challenge that statement. You are also welcome to join Team I’m just sayin… in our Walk to End Alzheimer’s.

You can donate (or find a way to join the team) @ http://act.alz.org/goto/gwhorres

Top 138 Bon Jovi Songs of All Time List

#14

Song: Let It Rock

Year: 1986

Album: Slippery When Wet

Writers: Jon Bon Jovi & Richie Sambora

Saturday, September 1, 2018

#15

In an effort to raise money for The Walk to End Alzheimer’s, I am counting down the Top 138 Bon Jovi Songs of All Time. As a reminder, this list also includes songs from solo projects of Jon Bon Jovi and Richie Sambora (because they are main members of the group and because I like their songs). Feel free to leave a comment and, even better, feel free to donate. Multiple donations are allowed. There is no limit for how big a donation can be… I challenge you to challenge that statement. You are also welcome to join Team I’m just sayin… in our Walk to End Alzheimer’s.

You can donate (or find a way to join the team) @ http://act.alz.org/goto/gwhorres

Top 138 Bon Jovi Songs of All Time List

#15

Song: Without Love

Year: 1986

Album: Slippery When Wet

Writers: Jon Bon Jovi, Richie Sambora & Desmond Child